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		<title>Losing Control</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 20 May 2012 11:42:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The role of supervisor is one of the most challenging positions in the working world. Reason: Supervisors walk the fine line between losing control of the employees or losing employee motivation by being too strict with rules. In any organization there are going to be norms or rules that people are supposed to follow. Let [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thetrustambassador.com&#038;blog=8135570&#038;post=1214&#038;subd=trustambassador&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft  wp-image-1226" title="Portrait of moving friesian black horse" src="http://trustambassador.files.wordpress.com/2012/05/wild-horse-2.jpg?w=195&h=168" alt="" width="195" height="168" />The role of supervisor is one of the most challenging positions in the working world. Reason: Supervisors walk the fine line between losing control of the employees or losing employee motivation by being too strict with rules.</p>
<p>In any organization there are going to be norms or rules that people are supposed to follow. Let me illustrate my point with a specific example. Let&#8217;s look at the length of the morning and afternoon breaks. Let&#8217;s say the standard break in the organization is 20 minutes. That seems simple enough, everyone in the group is supposed to adhere to the 20 minute break.</p>
<p>What you will see if you actually time the break is that most employees stop work let&#8217;s say at exactly 9:30 am. They then go to the bathroom down the hall to wash up before going to the break room. They arrive at the break room at 9:40. They get their coffee or whatever and sit down to chat with friends. Since they arrived at 9:40, they take the full 20 minutes and chat till 10 am. Then they go to the bathroom again to get rid of the coffee they just drank. They loiter in the hall and get back to the workplace at roughly 10:15. So, the standard 20 minute break is now more than double the specified length. The afternoon has the same pattern.</p>
<p>This pattern is typical rather than the exception. The supervisor has a difficult time trying to control this situation without seeming to be an ogre. It can go uncorrected for years, costing the organization a huge penalty in productivity.</p>
<p>Supervisors are continually challenged by people to meet their individual and collective needs, even if it means bending some of the rules. If they let one person come to work a bit late because of a child with special needs, then other people are going to come in late with less valid reasons. First thing you know, nobody is showing up on time. Once people begin to see the supervisor is &#8220;reasonable&#8221; with exceptions to stated rules, he is on a slippery slope in terms of long term control. Trying to get out of the cycle can be vexing because if the supervisor takes a strong stand on rules, then he becomes despised, and people start finding other ways to cut corners.</p>
<p>Here are seven rules that can prevent the erosion of discipline while, at the same time, showing flexibility and respect for individuals.</p>
<p>1. Be alert to the concept of rules being there for a reason. Know the reasons and communicate them when needed.</p>
<p>2. Let people know what the rules are by well-timed reminders, but avoid getting anal about it.</p>
<p>3. Allow open discussion on how the rules should be applied. This has two benefits 1) it serves to remind people of the specific rules, and 2) it gives people some say and creative input into how the rules should be applied in your area.</p>
<p>4. Be consistent on the application of rules. Do not bend for one person and not another.</p>
<p>5. Allow exceptions only when there is good justification, and explain to people why you decided to bend a rule in this case.</p>
<p>6. Intervene early if there are abuses of the rules. Do not let bad habits continue for months before taking action. Reason: if you wait too long, when you finally do try to enforce the rules, you are subject to ridicule and over reaction.</p>
<p>7. Treat people like adults, and they will act more like adults.</p>
<p>My observation is that the best supervisors are those who really care for people enough to expect them to follow the rules and call them out when they do not. A gentle but firm hand that is applied with kindness will work in most cases. That attitude creates long term respect and trust.</p>
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		<title>Leaders: Hold Yourself Accountable</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Apr 2012 09:22:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Several managers I know are fond of saying &#8220;we have to hold our people accountable.&#8221; I think the process of making sure people need to step up to responsibility is a good one, but it really needs to start at the top. Unfortunately, I see many top leaders failing to hold themselves accountable first. Let&#8217;s [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thetrustambassador.com&#038;blog=8135570&#038;post=1191&#038;subd=trustambassador&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1198" title="Accountable" src="http://trustambassador.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/accountable.jpg?w=226&h=300" alt="" width="226" height="300" />Several managers I know are fond of saying &#8220;we have to hold our people accountable.&#8221; I think the process of making sure people need to step up to responsibility is a good one, but it really needs to start at the top. Unfortunately, I see many top leaders failing to hold themselves accountable first.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s envision a plant manager who has a problem of extremely low morale in the factory. The supervisors are telling the manager that people are upset because of no raise in 3 years and the threats of layoffs. They are tired of being abused and kept in the dark. The productivity is at an all time low, and the only way to take cost out is to further reduce the workforce. If you were that manager, how would you go about engineering a rapid turnaround in the performance of your plant?</p>
<p>One interesting strategy is push your chair back from the desk, stand up, walk down the hall, go in the bathroom, look in the mirror, and ask yourself some tough questions like the following:</p>
<p>• Morale is terrible in this plant, and as the manager in charge, how have you been contributing to this problem?<br />
• What is preventing you from fully holding yourself accountable for this awful situation?<br />
• In what ways have you been trying to lay the blame on the supervisors, employees, bad economy, suppliers, business downturn, competition, etc., and how can you deal with the current situations and business environment in a more empowering and effective way for all concerned?<br />
• What fundamental changes in the structure, behaviors, values, and vision are you going to make to completely change the environment?<br />
• What behaviors do you need to change, starting right now, to build a culture of higher trust?<br />
• In what ways can you change the attitudes of the workers by changing your own attitudes and behaviors?<br />
• Since bonuses, or picnics, or parties, or hat days are not going to have much impact on long term motivation, how can you find out what really will inspire people and then implement the proper changes to the environment?<br />
• How can you be a better mentor for your supervisors as well as train them to be better mentors to their own staff?<br />
• How are you going to find a way to quadruple the time you have available to communicate with people?<br />
• Do you need assistance to solve these issues? If so, what kind of help could you use and where can you find it?<br />
• How can you know if or when it is time to pursue other opportunities and let someone with a different skill set handle the turnaround?</p>
<p>Yes, that is tough medicine, and yet I believe if the cold realities in these questions were internalized by some top leaders, conditions might start to change. It is only through the behaviors and attitudes of the top leaders that real changes can be made in an organization. Once top leaders step up to their own accountability, then the rest of the organization will quickly become enrolled in a new and positive vision for the enterprise.</p>
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		<title>Trust Seeds</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Apr 2012 10:35:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We are all aware that interpersonal trust is precious. Trust is fragile; it is difficult to build, and easy to destroy. Most people believe it takes a very long time to build up trust with another person. There is an alternate view; if certain conditions are present when people first meet, a &#8220;seed&#8221; of trust [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thetrustambassador.com&#038;blog=8135570&#038;post=1185&#038;subd=trustambassador&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1192" title="Seeds" src="http://trustambassador.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/seeds.jpg?w=207&h=300" alt="" width="207" height="300" />We are all aware that interpersonal trust is precious. Trust is fragile; it is difficult to build, and easy to destroy. Most people believe it takes a very long time to build up trust with another person. There is an alternate view; if certain conditions are present when people first meet, a &#8220;seed&#8221; of trust is created upon which further trust will grow if both people continue to nurture it.</p>
<p>In his book &#8220;Blink,&#8221; Malcolm Gladwell describes the &#8220;Thin Slices&#8221; we humans use to size up other people within seconds of meeting them. We absorb an enormous amount of data instantly in the body language and the first words uttered by a new acquaintance.</p>
<p>I can recall meeting two influential men last year within seconds of each other. The first one gave me a solid handshake and a smile. He made great eye contact and asked me a question about my family. The second individual gave me a half-limp handshake while his eyes were scanning the room to see who else was there. He did smile, but it was forced and phony. Since that time, I have effortlessly developed a relationship of high trust with the first individual, and I have felt uncomfortable to be in the same room as the second one. The relationship with the first man took several months to develop, but the seed was planted in the first 5 seconds. With the second man, there was nothing for trust to grow on, so a relationship never kindled.</p>
<p>There are numerous things people instantly assess about us. Here are five conditions that allow you to plant a seed on which trust can grow.</p>
<p><strong>Competence</strong> &#8211; People must be convinced that you know what you are doing to view you as being trustworthy. If they sense that you have the ability from a knowledge and skill set to deliver on your statements, then you pass the competence test. If they have doubts that you can deliver, then they will remain skeptical until there is enough time to test you.</p>
<p><strong>Integrity</strong> &#8211; Do you have the character to do what is right? People need to feel that you are not duplicitous and that you will stand up for what you believe is right. It does not mean that you always need to agree with others on every point, but people need to see you as a person of high moral and ethical fiber before they are going to trust you.</p>
<p><strong>Reliability</strong> &#8211; People need to be convinced that you will do what you say. This characteristic normally takes people a long time to test, but it actually can happen quickly. People can discern your reliability through the way you phrase intentions and even the body language you use to chat with them. The ability to follow through with intended actions or at least get back to the other person if conditions change is easy to spot, just as it is easy to observe a blowhard who says nice things but has no intention to actually do them.</p>
<p><strong>Attitude</strong> &#8211; To gain trust, you need to project a positive attitude when another person is meeting you and ensure that it comes from the heart. Depending on the contextual background of the meeting, a smile is the usual way to show a positive attitude toward another person. Caveat: putting on a false smile is the kiss of death, because it pegs you as someone who cannot be trusted at all. In a different context, a look of concern or sympathy might be a more appropriate way to show a positive attitude toward the other person. Your attitude and demeanor must be heartfelt and congruent with the situation.</p>
<p><strong>Care</strong> &#8211; It is vital to project that you really do care about the other person. People might say it takes years to know if someone else really does care about you. In reality, care can be displayed in hundreds of small gestures, just as selfishness can be easily spotted. Giving deference to the feelings of others is an important component of Emotional Intelligence. The interesting observation about this is that the people who have low Emotional Intelligence have the biggest blindspots, according to Daniel Goleman. Translated, if you come across as a phony in terms of really caring about other people, you will not have the ability to detect this in yourself, but others will see it instantly.</p>
<p>On the back of my business card, I have a picture of a pile of various seeds. The words say:<br />
<strong></strong></p>
<p><strong>Seeds for Growing Leaders</strong><br />
Plant in an environment of trust,<br />
Sprinkle daily with humility,<br />
Weed out negativity,<br />
Place in the light of truth,<br />
Be patient,<br />
Enjoy the fruits of great leadership.</p>
<p>It does take a long time of consistent performance for a very strong bond of trust to build, but the first seeds of trust can be established quickly upon meeting someone. Make sure when you meet a new person that you genuinely project the five conditions above, and you will be well on your way to a trusting relationship.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Several decades ago, the now-deceased quality guru, W. Edwards Deming came up with a list of 14 key points for leaders to take that would accomplish what he called &#8220;profound knowledge.&#8221; Point number 8 on his list was &#8220;drive out fear.&#8221; I believe this was one of the most powerful concepts on his famous list. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thetrustambassador.com&#038;blog=8135570&#038;post=1177&#038;subd=trustambassador&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1186" title="Deming" src="http://trustambassador.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/deming.jpg?w=450" alt=""   />Several decades ago, the now-deceased quality guru, W. Edwards Deming came up with a list of 14 key points for leaders to take that would accomplish what he called &#8220;profound knowledge.&#8221; Point number 8 on his list was &#8220;drive out fear.&#8221; I believe this was one of the most powerful concepts on his famous list. The reason is that the absence of fear is a prerequisite for higher trust, and trust is the most important ingredient to higher organizational productivity. In this article, I will share seven tips to help drive out fear.</p>
<p>Fear is one on the most basic of human instincts. It is fear that allowed humanoids to survive during primitive times, and it is still the basis of survival today. Without fear, you would not take the time to look both ways before crossing the street. Too much constraining fear in the organizational context can produce a gridlock of activities among the people that prevent the establishment of trust. Let&#8217;s look at some tips that leaders can use to reduce the fear in the workplace, and thus help to increase trust.</p>
<p><strong>Be more transparent</strong></p>
<p>When people are kept in the dark about what things are happening that can affect them, it is only natural to become afraid. When leaders contemplate draconian actions in sealed conference rooms, the word spreads like fire in a tinderbox. Some future actions must not be shared for legal reasons, but in many cases leaders attempt to shelter people from possible actions because they do not want to cause panic. That attitude is false logic. More panic ensues from speculation than would be present if full disclosure was given.</p>
<p><strong>Reinforce Candor</strong></p>
<p>Praise rather than punish people for sharing their observations about inconsistencies. In most organizations, people do not believe it is safe to tell leaders the truth about their observations. Their livelihood might be at stake. When leaders invite open dialog on sensitive issues and reinforce people who verbalize their fears, it tends to extinguish the rumor mill and build a foundation of higher trust.</p>
<p><strong>Be Kind</strong></p>
<p>Treating people with dignity and respect is nothing more than following the Golden Rule. If leaders consistently treated people the way they would like to be treated if the roles were reversed, there would be much less fear in the workplace. When people feel intimidated or bullied, they naturally cower in fear for what might happen to them.</p>
<p><strong>Develop more Emotional Intelligence</strong></p>
<p>Emotional Intelligence is your ability to understand emotions and your skill at being able to use that knowledge to manage yourself and your relationships with others. This skill allows leaders to act in ways that foster open dialog and lower fear. A very good book to help people gain higher EQ is Emotional Intelligence 2.0 by Bradberry and Greaves.</p>
<p><strong>Level with people</strong></p>
<p>Be honest with people and let them know of any improvement opportunities in a supportive way. When people know you are sincerely trying to help them improve, they will be less fearful. Each person has some insecurity regardless of his or her history. Helping people grow is a great way to lower fear.</p>
<p><strong>Care about others</strong></p>
<p>Fear has a hard time growing in an environment where people truly care about each other. The expressions of empathy and sympathy when people are struggling mean they will feel supported in their darkest hours. They forster courage and faith that most problems are only temporary setbacks, and that life itself is an amazing journey.</p>
<p><strong>Trust other people</strong></p>
<p>When trust is present, fear has a hard time surviving. When leaders show that they have faith in the ability of people to do the right things, then they do not project a kind of &#8220;gotcha&#8221; environment that is evident in many organizations. The result is that people are not on edge wondering when the next outburst will occur.</p>
<p>The absence of unnecessary fear is a huge benefit for any organization. Some fear is good for the self preservation of individuals and organizations, but keeping it at the lowest possible level is liberating and will bring out the best in people.</p>
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		<title>Real Motivation</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Apr 2012 09:35:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Every manager I have ever met, including myself, would appreciate higher morale and motivation among his or her team. After all, these two attitudes lead directly to productivity and employee satisfaction, which are pivotal in sustaining a healthy business. Many managers have a stated goal to improve morale, motivation, or both. I contend the mindset [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thetrustambassador.com&#038;blog=8135570&#038;post=1170&#038;subd=trustambassador&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft  wp-image-1178" title="centrality" src="http://trustambassador.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/centrality.jpg?w=164&h=184" alt="" width="164" height="184" />Every manager I have ever met, including myself, would appreciate higher morale and motivation among his or her team. After all, these two attitudes lead directly to productivity and employee satisfaction, which are pivotal in sustaining a healthy business. Many managers have a stated goal to improve morale, motivation, or both. I contend the mindset inherent in setting goals for these items shows a lack of understanding that actually will limit the achievement of both.</p>
<p>The reason is that morale and motivation are not objectives; they are the outcomes of a great or a lousy culture. If you spend your time and energy trying to improve the environment to include higher trust, then higher morale and motivation will happen. If you try to drive morale, it may sound to the employees like the famous saying, &#8220;The beatings will continue until morale improves.&#8221;</p>
<p>I have seen a group of people at work with such low motivation, there seemed to be no way to get any work done. If a manager dared try to speak to a group of employees, they would heckle or just pay no attention. Nothing the leader said or did had much impact on the employees, so in desperation, the manager would stoop to threats. This would elicit a half hearted groan and some compliance for a time, but the quality of product would suffer, and the gains would be only temporary.</p>
<p>I have seen that same group of workers six months down the line after putting in a really good leader. The atmosphere was entirely different. The employees showed by their body language that they were eager to do a great job. If there was a dirty or difficult job and the leader asked for volunteers, half a dozen hands would go up immediately. When they were at work, they resembled the seven dwarfs whistling while they worked rather than slaves in the belly of a ship being forced to row.</p>
<p>How was that one leader able to accomplish such a turn-around in just six months? The leader focused on changing the underlying culture to one of high trust rather than just demanding improvement in the performance indicators. The motivation and morale improved by orders of magnitude as a result rather than because they were the objective. Let&#8217;s look at some specific steps this manager took early in her term that turned things around quickly:</p>
<p><strong>Built trust</strong> &#8211; She immediately let people know she was not there to play games with them. She was serious about making improvements in their existence and had that foremost in her mind. She built a real culture where people felt safe to come to her with any issue and know they would not be insulted or punished.</p>
<p><strong>Improved teamwork</strong> &#8211; She invested in some teamwork training for the entire group, offsite. These workshops made a big difference in breaking down barriers and teaching people how to get along better in the pressure cooker of normal organizational life.</p>
<p><strong>Empowered others</strong> &#8211; She made sure the expectations of all workers were known to them but did not micromanage the process. She let people figure out how to accomplish tasks and got rid of several arcane and restrictive rules that were holding people back from giving their maximum discretionary effort.<br />
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<p><strong>Reinforced progress</strong> &#8211; The atmosphere became lighter and more fun for the workers as they started to feel more successful and really enjoyed the creative reinforcement activities set up by their leader. She let the workers plan their own celebrations within some reasonable guidelines and participated in the activities herself.<br />
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<p><strong>Promoted the good work</strong> &#8211; the manager held a series of meetings with higher management to showcase the progress in an improved culture. The workers were involved in planning and conducting these meetings, so they got the benefit of the praise directly from top management.</p>
<p><strong>Set tough goals</strong> &#8211; It is interesting that the manager did not set weak or easy goals. Instead, she set aggressive stretch goals and explained her faith that the team was capable of achieving them. It first, people seemed to gulp at the enormity of her challenges, but that soon gave way to elation as several milestones were reached.</p>
<p><strong>Support</strong> &#8211; The manager supported people when they had personal needs, and made sure the organization received the funding needed to buy better equipment and tools.</p>
<p><strong>Firm but fair</strong> &#8211; The manager was consistent in her application of discipline. People respected her for not playing favorites and for making some tough choices that may have been unpopular at the moment but were right in the long run. Her strength was evident in decisions every day, so people grew in their respect for her.</p>
<p>This manager turned a near-hopeless workforce into a cracker-jack team of highly motivated individuals in six months. Morale was incredibly high. Even though improving morale was not her objective, it was the outcome of her actions to improve the culture.</p>
<p>If you want to be one of the elite leaders of our time, regardless of the hand you have been dealt, work on the culture of your organization rather than driving a program to improve morale and motivation. Develop trust and treat people the right way, and you will see a remarkable transformation in an amazingly short period of time.</p>
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		<title>9 Steps to Rebuild Trust</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Apr 2012 10:14:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I believe trust between people is like a bank account. The balance is what determines the level of trust at any point in time, and it is directional. I might trust you today more than you trust me. We make deposits and withdrawals in the trust account nearly every day with the things we say [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thetrustambassador.com&#038;blog=8135570&#038;post=1161&#038;subd=trustambassador&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1171" title="Broken Trust" src="http://trustambassador.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/broken-trust.jpg?w=300&h=199" alt="" width="300" height="199" />I believe trust between people is like a bank account. The balance is what determines the level of trust at any point in time, and it is directional. I might trust you today more than you trust me. We make deposits and withdrawals in the trust account nearly every day with the things we say and do. Usually the deposits are made in small steps that add up to a large balance over time. Unfortunately, withdrawals can be massive due to what I call &#8220;The Ratchet Effect.&#8221; All prior trust may be wiped out quickly. Nobody is happy when trust is lost.</p>
<p>I believe trust withdrawals can lead to a long term higher level of trust if they are handled well. Just as in a marriage when there is a major falling out, if the situation is handled well by both parties in a cooperative spirit, the problem can lead to an even stronger relationship in the long term. Let&#8217;s investigate some steps that can allow the speedy rebuilding of trust.</p>
<p><strong>Act Swiftly</strong></p>
<p>Major trust withdrawals can be devastating, and the trauma needs to be treated as quickly as possible. Just as a severe bodily injury requires immediate emergency care, so does the bleeding of emotional capital need to be stopped after a major letdown. The situation is not going to heal by itself, so both parties need to set aside normal routines in order to focus significant energy on regaining equilibrium.</p>
<p><strong>Verify care</strong></p>
<p>Both people should spend some time remembering what the relationship felt like before the problem. In most cases there is a true caring for the other person, even if it is eclipsed by the hurt and anger of the moment. It may be a stretch for some people to mentally set aside the issue, but it would be helpful to do that, if just as an exercise. If the problem had never happened, would these people care about each other? If one person cannot recognize at least the potential for future care, then the remedial process is blocked until that happens.</p>
<p><strong>Establish a desire to do something about it</strong></p>
<p>If reparations are to be made, both people must cooperate. If there was high value in the relationship before the breach, then it should be possible to visualize a return to the same level or higher level of trust. It may seem out of reach if the problem was a major let down, but it is critical that both parties really want the hurt to be resolved.</p>
<p><strong>Admit fault and accept blame</strong></p>
<p>The person who made the breach needs to admit what happened to the other person. If there is total denial of what occurred, then no progress can be made. Try to do this without trying to justify the action. Focus on what happened, even if it was an innocent gaffe. Often there is an element of fault on the part of both parties, but even if one person is the only one who did anything wrong, an understanding of fault is needed in this step. Sometimes neither party did anything particularly wrong, but the circumstances led to trust being lost.</p>
<p><strong>Ask for forgiveness</strong></p>
<p>It sounds so simple, but many people find it impossible to verbalize the request for forgiveness, yet a pardon is exactly what has to happen to enable the healing process. The problem is that saying &#8220;I forgive you&#8221; is easy to say but might be hard to do when emotions are raw. True and full forgiveness is not likely to happen until the final healing process has occurred.</p>
<p><strong>Determine the cause</strong></p>
<p>This is a kind of investigative phase where it is important to know what happened in order to make progress. It is a challenge to remain calm and be as objective with the facts as possible. Normally the main emotion is one of pain, but anger can accompany the pain. Both people need to describe what happened, because the view from one side will be significantly different from the opposite view. Go beyond describing what happened, and discuss how you felt about what happened. Do not cut this discussion off until both parties have exhausted their descriptions of what occurred and how they felt about it. Sometimes it helps in this stage to do some reverse role playing where each person tries to verbalize the situation from the perspective of the other.</p>
<p><strong>Develop a positive path forward</strong></p>
<p>The next step is the mutual problem solving process. Often two individuals try to do this without the preparatory work done above, which is more difficult. The thing to ask in this phase is &#8220;what would have to happen to restore your trust in me to at least the level where it was before.&#8221; Here, some creativity can really help. You are looking for a win-win solution where each party feels some real improvement has been made. Do not stop looking for solutions just because it is difficult to find them. If you have gotten this far, there is going to be some set of things that can begin the healing process. Develop a path forward together. What new behaviors are you both going to exhibit with each other to start fresh.</p>
<p><strong>Agree to take action</strong></p>
<p>There needs to be a formal agreement to take corrective action. Usually this agreement requires modified behaviors on the part of both people. Be as specific as possible about what you and the other person are going to do differently. The only way to hold each other accountable for progress is to have a clear understanding of what will be different.</p>
<p><strong>Check back on progress</strong></p>
<p>Keep verifying that the new behaviors are working and modify them, if needed, to make positive steps every day. As the progress continues, it will start getting easier, and the momentum will increase. Make sure to smell the roses along the way. It is important to celebrate progress as it occurs, because that reinforcement will encourage continued progress. If there is a another set-back, it is time to cycle back on the steps above and not give up on the relationship just because the healing process is a long one.</p>
<p>In many cases, it is possible to restore trust to a higher level than existed before the breach. This method is highly dependent on the sincerity with which each person really does want the benefits of a high trust relationship with the other person. That outcome is really good news because it allows a significant trust withdrawal to become an opportunity instead of a disaster.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Greg Smith wrote his scathing letter of resignation from Goldman Sachs, and it appeared as an op-ed in the New York Times on March 14th. He is out of Goldman Sachs for good, but I believe it was the firm that really got &#8220;Sach&#8217;d.&#8221; Here we have an insider who was unable to play the [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thetrustambassador.com&#038;blog=8135570&#038;post=1147&#038;subd=trustambassador&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft  wp-image-1154" title="I Quit" src="http://trustambassador.files.wordpress.com/2012/03/quit.jpg?w=218&h=196" alt="" width="218" height="196" />Greg Smith wrote his scathing letter of resignation from Goldman Sachs, and it appeared as an op-ed in the New York Times on March 14th. He is out of Goldman Sachs for good, but I believe it was the firm that really got &#8220;Sach&#8217;d.&#8221;</p>
<p>Here we have an insider who was unable to play the game of duplicity and go against his own values. He revealed so much evidence of a corrupt culture that the entire organization is likely to continue its fall from grace. The ouster of CEO Lloyd Blankfein and President Gary Cohn is not assured, but I am willing to bet that they will not be there one year from now. Even before Smith&#8217;s diatribe, speculation about Blankfein leaving soon was becoming more prevalent.</p>
<p>The Goldman Sachs PR machine has tried to blunt some of the damage by stating Smith was just one of over 30,000 employees, and it is expected there are going to be some disgruntled employees in an organization that large. If Smith&#8217;s accusations are accurate, the Goldman Sachs defense, thus far, has been tepid at best.</p>
<p>Smith&#8217;s courage to leave and expose the corruption will cost him in the short term. As William Cohan, author of <em>Money and Power: How Goldman Sachs Came to Rule the World</em>, pointed out: &#8220;Smith is toast on Wall Street.&#8221; On the other hand, if Smith does not meet some mysterious demise or get run over by a taxi, he is likely to do well as an author himself and flourish on the speaking circuit as a competitor to Cohan. There is undoubtedly enough interest out there to support at least two authors and speakers for several years.</p>
<p>I am neither supporting or denigrating Smith&#8217;s claims. I am not close enough to the facts. Rather, I am marveling at the level of candor involved in his letter. Accurate or not, his resignation letter lit up the twitter boards for the last half of the week. It will be an interesting story to follow.</p>
<p>One basic truth stated by Smith in his letter will go down in history as a warning to all top executives who have let hubris or greed push fundamental values to the side. &#8220;It astounds me how little senior management gets a basic truth: If clients don&#8217;t trust you they will eventually stop doing business with you. It doesn&#8217;t matter how smart you are.&#8221;</p>
<p>Another favorite quote from his letter is, &#8220;Leadership used to be about ideas, setting an example and doing the right thing. Today, if you make enough money for the firm (and you are not currently an ax murderer) you will be promoted into a position of influence.&#8221; I am wondering how many of the managers who may be following the &#8220;Money over customer well being&#8221; philosophy are starting to shake in their boots. How can they change their methods in midstream and be able to look at themselves in the mirror?</p>
<p>I suppose enough money and power can help executives deceive themselves into believing wrong things are OK. After all, Smith himself was participating in the same kind of deception until his conscience could no longer bear it, or perhaps he was put under a kind of pressure he could no longer endure. Regardless, he was not blameless for tolerating the same kind of corruption for at least a few years. Perhaps this affair is a kind of wakeup call that a corporate culture can be a seductive force that enables people to accept and follow what they would otherwise know is wrong.</p>
<p>I am an idealistic soul who still believes in Superman and the premise that good eventually wins out over evil. It did take a lot of courage to do what Greg Smith did. MBA classes will be discussing his letter and its effect for many years to come. It is rare that a resignation can have such a high profile impact. If history shows his points were accurate, then Smith was really one of the good guys. So here&#8217;s to all the good people out there who are unwilling to do things they do not believe in just to make the most money possible. Greg Smith made sure they have a greater chance for their reward while still on this earth. For those who still believe in a duplicitous existence, you can look forward to a significant decline in your business, or even extinction.</p>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t Do A Survey</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Feb 2012 10:58:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In most organizations, when managers want to know how people are feeling, they do a QWL (Quality of Work Life) survey to find out. I there are more direct ways to identify what people are thinking. By simply discussing the need for a survey, the most insightful data is already spilled all over the table. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thetrustambassador.com&#038;blog=8135570&#038;post=1120&#038;subd=trustambassador&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft  wp-image-1128" title="Survey" src="http://trustambassador.files.wordpress.com/2012/02/survey.jpg?w=179&h=136" alt="" width="179" height="136" />In most organizations, when managers want to know how people are feeling, they do a QWL (Quality of Work Life) survey to find out. I there are more direct ways to identify what people are thinking. By simply discussing the need for a survey, the most insightful data is already spilled all over the table. To mop it up, you need to improve the level of trust in your organization.</p>
<p>Taking an employee engagement survey usually does not reveal trust weaknesses or their causes because in low trust environments people will either not be totally honest or be turned off by yet another survey to gather data.</p>
<p>Most people believe the data will sit in a desk drawer anyway, and it will not provide real change. How many times have you heard employees say, &#8220;They keep doing these satisfaction surveys, but nothing ever changes around here&#8221;?</p>
<p>Taking a survey feels like progress to a management team with their hearts in the right place. They believe they can dig in and really understand the problems in depth, but I believe there is a far easier and more accurate way to get the data in most cases.</p>
<p>In an environment of high trust, the information about what is working well and what needs to change is as ubiquitous as the air we breathe. People do not need to fill out boxes in a computerized screen to identify the most pressing needs. Improvement opportunities will be offered up continuously, and action can be taken immediately, not after 11 staff meetings to discuss the 27-page summary of the employee satisfaction survey.</p>
<p>The illusion of progress made by taking a survey happens in nearly every organization because managers are not thinking of alternative methods. Besides, the survey gives managers something to talk about and point at to demonstrate they care and are trying to understand.</p>
<p>A better way to make progress is to identify which management behaviors are causing people to hold back the truth out of fear for their job or something else. Rather than contemplating an employee satisfaction survey, Management should be asking themselves questions such as:</p>
<p>1. How can we change the culture to eliminate the need to take surveys in the future?</p>
<p>2. How can we modify the way we interact with people so we always know what is on their minds when problems are small and can be easily resolved?</p>
<p>3. How can we get more time in the workplace to chat with people rather than be cooped up in our offices composing e-mails, or sitting in boring meetings?</p>
<p>4. How can we continually test our understanding of what is happening in the hearts of people by listening and watching their body language?</p>
<p>5. Why do we have an insular management team? When we look around the room, why do we not see more workers in our meetings?</p>
<p>6. Why do the people think our values are not consistently practiced? We say people are our most valuable asset, but do we always make decisions that support that ideal?</p>
<p>7. Why are our goals not fully understood or supported by the people doing the work?</p>
<p>If management energy is focused on creating a real environment where people are not playing games with each other in order to survive, then improvement ideas will flow like water down a mountain stream. If the culture is frozen by fear, the resulting ice makes it necessary to have a blast from a survey in order to move the water, and the data will not be accurate due to fear or apathy.</p>
<p>The survey blast does not change the underlying cause and thaw things out to a more fluid state. It only temporarily provides questionable data so there is an appearance of progress. If managers and leaders would ask questions like the ones above and seek to gain information in those ways, the progress will be far easier to achieve and more robust.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Dec 2011 15:18:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Most of us have been in a situation where we have felt micromanaged. We were given something to do, but then badgered about exactly how to do it. This happens more in low trust groups, and it often creates a further degradation in trust. We usually fault the manager for this problem because he or [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thetrustambassador.com&#038;blog=8135570&#038;post=1038&#038;subd=trustambassador&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>I have a theory on micromanagement. It is not entirely the fault of the leader who is intrusive into the workings of employees. I believe the employees are at least partly to blame in many cases. Reason: I used to work for a leader who was known as the king of all micromanagers. He basically tried to run everything by telling people exactly how to accomplish their tasks. He was an excellent leader otherwise, but people always dinged him on being way too intrusive.</p>
<p>I learned about his reputation before ever going to work for him. During my first few weeks, I went way overboard in my preparation. I would anticipate any potential question he might have and be prepared with data to support my conclusions. When he would suggest something to try, I usually could say, &#8220;it has already been done.&#8221; I would communicate my plans to him every day (including weekends) and ask lots of questions about what was wanted. He never had an opportunity to get to me because I always got to him first. After a while, he basically left me alone and did not micromanage me very much for the next 25 years. We got along great, while he continued to micromanage others.</p>
<p>This experience led me to create a list of six tips you can use to reduce the tendency for a boss to micromanage you. Granted, this will not be 100% effective in all cases, but these steps can really help reduce the problem to a manageable level. Note: I will use the male pronoun here for simplification, but the same concepts would apply for both genders.</p>
<p><strong>1. Try to anticipate what the manager will suggest</strong></p>
<p>Work to understand the point of view of the manager, and figure out the suggested methods so when he says, &#8220;Do it this way,&#8221; often you can say, &#8220;That&#8217;s exactly how I am doing it. Or you might say, I tried doing it that way, but it created too much scrap, so I am now doing it a better way.</p>
<p><strong>2. Be sure you are clear on the expectations</strong></p>
<p>Often the manager has been somewhat vague on the precise deliverable. Before going off to do a task, take that extra time to verify what the boss really wants in the end. If it is a long or complex set of activities, see if you can get some sub-goals that you can deliver along the way.</p>
<p><strong>3. Get to the boss before he gets to you</strong></p>
<p>This technique really helps when you have a voice mail or text connection with the boss. Get familiar with the timing of communications and preempt the instructions with a note of your own. For example, if the boss has a habit of catching up on his micromanaging tasks during the lunch hour, simply provide an update to him at about 11 a.m. every day.</p>
<p><strong>4. If the boss is getting intrusive, surprise him</strong></p>
<p>It stops a micromanager dead in his tracks when he tries to tell you how to do step 3 and you tell him you are already on step 8. Step 3 was done yesterday, and the results were supplied to him in his e-mail inbox. The boss is blown away that you made so much progress.</p>
<p><strong>5. Seek to build a trusting relationship with the micromanager</strong></p>
<p>If the boss really trusts you, it means there will be less worry on his part that you will do things incorrectly. That means you are left alone to do things your way.</p>
<p><strong>6. Call him on it</strong></p>
<p>The boss needs to understand that for you to be empowered and give your best effort to the organization, you need to be free to use your own initiative. I knew one employee who brought a set of handcuffs into the office. Whenever his boss would try to micromanage him, he would just get out the cuffs and slip them on. The message was loud and clear, &#8220;if you want me to do this well, don&#8217;t tie my hands.&#8221;</p>
<p>My rule of thumb on micromanaging is that credibility and communication allow you to manage things as you see fit. Lack of credibility and communication often lead to being micromanaged.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am a big believer in 360 Degree assessments for leaders. Reason: the tool is one of the best ways to reveal to a leader what other people think of him or her. If administered correctly, the evaluation can be insightful and form the basis of a well-focused development plan. Unfortunately, there are some traps [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thetrustambassador.com&#038;blog=8135570&#038;post=1032&#038;subd=trustambassador&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft  wp-image-1039" title="360 Degree" src="http://trustambassador.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/360-degree.jpg?w=202&h=182" alt="" width="202" height="182" />I am a big believer in 360 Degree assessments for leaders. Reason: the tool is one of the best ways to reveal to a leader what other people think of him or her. If administered correctly, the evaluation can be insightful and form the basis of a well-focused development plan.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, there are some traps that can cause the 360 Degree Assessment to be harmful rather than helpful. In this article, I focus on one major flaw with 360 Degree Assessments and offer some antidotes to this problem.</p>
<p>Most organizations use 360 as a measure of the effectiveness of leaders, and that information is directly related to compensation and advancement. This is logical because a 360 Degree Assessment represents how skilled the leader is at working with people at all levels. Isn&#8217;t that what a performance measurement system is supposed to do? Actually, no. Performance measurement should focus on results and behaviors to get the results, not on how well liked a leader is with people at all levels.</p>
<p>The 360 Degree Assessment can result in leadership mediocrity. Once managers realize their performance will be measured with a 360 process, they quickly learn it is vital to have all subordinates like them. That means leaders will focus on being popular with the troops, which is not always the best strategy for excellent leadership.</p>
<p>For example, I witnessed a Business Unit Manager who took his entire team off site for a day-long celebration of their progress. A lot of money was spent, and a good time was had by all, complete with a &#8220;hand jive&#8221; group dance that pumped a lot of energy. Six months later the entire team was unemployed, including the manager. He ignored the business realities and focused on keeping employees happy until there was no business left.</p>
<p>Great leaders recognize that sometimes they are not going to be well liked. They always seek to be respected, but that means sometimes enduring a period where they are unpopular. As Colin Powell once said, &#8220;Being responsible sometimes means pissing people off.&#8221; If the 360 Degree Assessment is directly linked to compensation and advancement, the exercise encourages leaders to make popular decisions over doing the right thing.</p>
<p>I recall one instance where I was combining several manufacturing departments into a divisional structure. Most of the departments had a mandatory safety shoe rule because the employees were moving heavy materials. One department decided they would not require safety shoes because most of their operation was &#8220;light&#8221; manufacturing. I was troubled by the inconsistent policy and was trying to drive a safety shoe mandate for all departments. I met with considerable resistance from this one department.</p>
<p>One day an operator in that department had an incident with a cart that ran over his foot. The injury was not serious, but it could have easily been a broken foot. I called a meeting and said it was now a requirement to wear safety shoes in the department. For months after that, I was a very unpopular leader with that population. The decision was respected, and it was clearly followed, but these people were extremely unhappy. My 360 rating coming from that area was impacted that year, and it had a negative influence on my overall performance appraisal.</p>
<p>The remedy is to make the leadership evaluation be a holistic process that takes into account many things, one of which is a 360 Degree Assessment. There needs to be an understanding that a temporarily low score from subordinates is not necessarily a black mark. The interpretation of data needs to take into account conditions on the ground that are causing the low marks. You might think that if employees had true respect for their leader, they would rate her highly even if they were unhappy with her at the moment. If you believe that, you and I disagree on human nature.</p>
<p>If handled well, the 360 Degree process works extremely well. Unfortunately, many organizations do not apply the necessary caveats because they don’t take the time and energy to understand the situations driving the data. Measuring human performance of managers is a very complex process, if your objectives are to encourage the right behaviors in the future and grow leadership capabilities. Do not mechanically couple the results of 360 Degree Assessments to compensation and advancement programs. It can lead to mediocre leaders.</p>
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